Why Do Good Girls Fall For Bad Boys

Have you ever wondered why women love bad boys? What’s so appealing about a “bad boy? Is the rebellious, brash, cockiness a turn-on? He definitely colors outside of the lines. He is normally way over the edge, bordering on rude and doesn’t seem to give a damn about anyone but himself - what exactly do women see in a guy like that? Why do the “bad boys” always seem to get the ladies? Good Girls Bad Boys Some people would say, women that like “Bad Boys” just have Daddy issues; but some women I know are rebels also and would be bored out of their minds with a regular guy. Let’s talk about the ladies that otherwise live a normal life inside the lines. I have always believed that people want what they can’t have; whether its entrance to a VIP place, the latest designer fashions, the nicest car, biggest home and the “Bad Boy” that they can’t tame! Bad boys just simply don’t give a damn. You can take it or leave it. That’s one reason why they fare well with women. If a woman says no, who cares? They move on to the next one, and they do it with the same verve and maverick attitude as they did the last one. Bad boys don’t care if he is your Mr. Right or your Mr. Right now or if he is either. That’s indifference. Women don’t dig men that are pushovers. I once heard a woman say, “I can’t stand a man that I can manipulate or control, but let me find a man like that; (manipulative and controlling) and I fall in love.” Contrary to the belief women like men they can read and men that provide them with a sense of security, women actually LOVE to guess! It is challenging for them, and it is one of the elements of the bad boy that keeps them coming back for more! Essentially the confident, cocky bad boy image rubs off a little bit on her – and she laps it up! These rebel men are always testing the boundaries and pushing the envelope when it comes to their life – and women can’t get enough of it. They find it intriguing. And when you put exciting and adventurous beside the other rebellious traits, it sends women into a tizzy. Confidence is downright sexy! They wouldn’t be able to pull off half of the antics they do if they weren’t brimming with confidence. Bad boys aren’t just confident around their friends, either – their cavalier attitude is in everything they do; from the way they dress to the way they approach you! The combination of confidence with a take it or leave mentality makes the talking part to women almost a given – considering the woman’s interest has already been sparked. Talking with them is just the part that reels them in and the bad boy knows how to tell her just what she wants to hear. If they weren’t confident, rebels would not be the chick magnets they are. Instead of indifferent, they would be self-conscious and non-committal (how many women have you passed up because you didn’t think you were good enough?) – You see, rebels don’t care. Rising to the challenge, living the wild side of life, being something more than conservative, and keeping her guessing about you – and her – it’s an explosive combination! Bad boys are often rugged and in-control. Most women I know want a man that makes her feel safe. Bad Boys aren’t scared to look someone in the eye, and stand up for what they believe in and believe it or not, they do still know how to treat a lady but sure as hell won’t let someone else disrespect his woman! Rebels know how to talk to women because they are all of the above. Confidence followed up with indifference, sprinkled with a little bit of mystery, intrigue and excitement is what attracts most women to start. That gets you the ‘in’ to talk with them – they’re interested, now you have to show them what you’ve got. Figuring those things out is the trick. Bad boys use their conversational skills to keep a woman interested and wanting more – and you can too. Ask yourself, “when was the last time I took a walk on the wild side?” If you are asking yourself that question, then you obviously aren’t a rebel and if you want more attention from the ladies, maybe take a few of these tips and learn to color outside of the lines occasionally!